This year has been pretty dynamic in regards to travel for me. Putty invited me to go along with him to the National Leaders’ Conference in England. I tried to give reasons why this wouldn’t be advisable, but I was pretty much told by a mentor that I had to go with him because it was an overseas trip! You see, I wasn’t too excited about figuring out how to reorder my life during this excursion, but with Putty’s invitation, the prompt from this mentor and many other encouraging words from others, I made the necessary plans to travel overseas.
While there, we connected with the National Directors of the Vineyards in the BeNeLux (Belgium, Netherlands, Luxembourg). They asked if we might be interested in coming to speak at their National Conference later in the year. I knew in my heart I would be going on this trip with Putty. He agreed and it was doubly confirmed when my mother broke out in tears of joy that I would get to see the place where she raised four of my siblings!
But in between these two trips, Putty received another invitation to speak at the Vineyard National Conference for the USA. Again, after such a great trip to England and a much anticipated trip to Belgium/Netherlands, I was eager to attend this conference with him too. We drove together to Ohio and had a great time connecting with so much of our bigger Vineyard family!
I forgot how much fun travel can be! Before I went to England, I hadn’t been overseas for the previous 10 years. That was another year of travel for me. In 2009, Putty and I went to China on a mission’s trip. We taught together, ate together, and had adventures together, although he had the biggest adventure alone when he got stuck in Hong Kong due to overlooking the number of visa entries he had. Oops!
Additionally, in that year we took a trip to California to visit our good, good friends and see the new life they were living out there. They had been called to help with a church plant and we were heart-broken to see them go, but we always made an effort to support them and help them follow the leading of God in this adventure.
Our other trip that year was to visit my brother & sister-in-law in Colorado. It was so wonderful to spend some extended time with them and meet their sweet cats. We hiked, ate good food, and enjoyed each others’ company. It was something that filled my heart as I reconnected with my brother who had lived ‘Out West’ for so many years prior.
These two years, 2009 & 2019 will be marked as ‘Year of Travel’ as well as ‘Growth Years for Brittany.’ You know, as much as I balk at getting out of my routine and trying new things, I always end up better for it. As much as I dig in my heels and act like all the planning is overly stressful, when I’m on the actual adventure itself, I realize how much I needed a change. (Can I get an ‘Amen!’?) My regular routine is safe, comfortable, and at times boring. Traveling and new adventures are potentially unsafe, uncomfortable, and … exciting! So why do I resist it so much? It’s simple… I forget.
I forget the good things that come out of adventure and risk. I forget that life isn’t just about doing the same ol’ thing day in and day out, but it’s about LIVING! I forget that relationships develop differently in the unfamiliar than in the familiar. My husband once said in regards to something else that I needed to have a tattoo on my hand that said, ‘XYZ is fun!’ It was said a bit tongue in cheek, but the idea of it was that I needed a constant reminder because I seemed to forget so easily!
What is your XYZ?…
So what is your XYZ? What in your life do you KNOW is fun, but you keep forgetting? What do you resist doing only to discover that once you did it, it was actually fun and life-giving? For me, there are more things than travel that I forget are great. I forget that having deep talks with a close friend are really life-giving. I forget that spending time in reflection actually brings me to a clearer understanding afterwards. I forget that practicing my piano and singing really brings me a lot of joy! I could go on, but I’d rather hear from you. What is your XYZ?
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Yes! Traveling is fun. I like that you go on mission trips. That’s so cool. I look forward to going on missions too. 🙂
It’s amazing how much life change can happen in one missions trip, isn’t it? I’m so thankful that God not only ministers to the people we’re going to serve, but He is also so giving that He ministers to us too while we’re walking in faith to do what He’s called us to do. Love that!
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I love to hear from you, Brittany! I’m so happy to hear about your travels and especially love seeing the pictures of you (and younger Putty) now and then.
Your frequent posts encourage me to quit stalling on publishing on my blog, so thank you!
One of my XYZ things is actually writing!!
On Fri, Nov 8, 2019 at 2:22 PM Brittany M Putman wrote:
> brittanymputman posted: ” 2019 Travel… This year has been pretty dynamic > in regards to travel for me. Putty invited me to go along with him to the > National Leaders’ Conference in England. I tried to give reasons why this > wouldn’t be advisable, but I was pretty much told by a” >
Hi Lesley, I know that feeling of being unmotivated to ‘get the next blog post’ out! It can be really de-energizing at times. Well, the beginning can be like that, but yup… once we get in the process and get the ball moving, it becomes more life giving. I think that law of science – objects in motion stay in motion – applies to blogging too. Happy blogging and I hope you find inspiration to prepare, write and publish your next blog post!
My xyz’s are writing, painting, sketching, or just resting. I like to be busy – working hard and taking care of others.. I want to love others well; and in my mind, loving them means feeding them, keeping a clean & comfortable home, and supporting their lifestyles. If I’m not physically working, I want to be ‘productive’ in prayer or Bible reading. So I forget how nice it can be to ignore my revolving ‘To Do List’ sometimes and just do something ‘non-productive’ – like putting together a puzzle with my daughter or watching a super-hero movie with my whole family. I forget that these restful times with family members are important too.
Okay, you and I are VERY similar! Haha. Thanks for putting many of my XYZs into words as well! It really is important to have times when we’re just ‘enjoying ourselves’ without any strings attached. The connections we build are so important, aren’t they? Thanks for sharing your thoughts on all this! So good!
My XYZ is similar to one of yours. Travel! I have an automatic reluctance to do it, but when I push myself to take on the challenge, I always enjoy experiencing something new. And there is also lots to learn. I love this one line you wrote: I forget that relationships develop differently in the unfamiliar than in the familiar. Great insight!
Mom, Yes, I’m right on board with you! The travel prep can be exhausting, but once the plan is put in action, it can be so much fun! And when we do it with others, that really does add a whole new dynamic to it. Thank you for commenting and enjoy your next trip! 😉